Stree dharma or Ideal Womanhood

Around the same time, I had one conversation with Shri Ram through one of my lady friends. It was at the Sunday program Hare Krishna. I sat down next to her, because I wanted to ask what's her relationship with a lot of Hindu men who constantly write her compliments on social networks. Literally every day, some Hindu men put «likes», writes her some backhanded compliments to her every post, and she respond favorably to their compliments. I am not a supporter of inter-ethnic marriages, and I was interested in her attitude to this issue.

I sat down next to her during honoring prasadam and asked her about it. Prasadam means Krishna’s mercy. Prasadam is food offered to Krishna for His enjoyment. I and my lady friend were honoring prasadam. I asked her about her attitude towards Hindu men who constantly write her compliments on social networks. She said they're so good, they're so cute, they always write to her so well, and I said to her, «This is a cheap trick. They are filling your ears with lie. They just jest with you. And you actually trust them? But you're no beginner. Pick with your head, not your heart. Just be smart. People prefer easy lies to difficult truths. I have lady friends who have lived with Hindus for some time. These my lady friends slept with Hindus. They had sex with Hindus, thought they'll be okay, but it ended badly. I do not advise you to start any relationship with them. If somebody's trying to get close to you, just stay away. Their pleasant words, the likes on social networks, funny emoticons are just decoration. It's just cheap compliments. They like to impress. So take it easy, don’t be so naive».

And she answers me, like, what's wrong with that, they are such charmer. I told her about my lady friends. I have some lady friends lived in India. One my lady friend lived long enough in India with a guru, who was devotee of Shiva. Another lady friend, too, lived some years with a different guru, also devotee of Shiva. Also one lady friend of mine lived with an Indian guy in Dubai. I said about all these lady friends in one story. I combined three stories of these lady friends of mine into one story. I just compiled three different stories into one story, so as not to go into details and not mention my specific lady friends.

The result was a story that my lady friend was deceived by compliments and pleasant manner of the Hindus. She went to India and lived there for a long time with a Hindu guru, who was devotee of Shiva. She was having sex with him. He was coming out to his worshippers in order to give them darshan. They were bowing to this guru, devotee of Shiva. My lady friend was coming out with him, and his worshippers were bowing to him and to her too, because they were together, she stood next to him, she slept with him, and they were a couple. But after a while he said to her, «You are many years old. You are already an old woman. There are so many beautiful young hot women. They want to be with me. Get out of here!» She said to him, «Am I really so many years old? I'm still young». She actually was about 35 years old. But he answered her, «No, you are many years old, look how many young, everyone wants, go».

I also told her that another lady friend of mine lived in Dubai, also with a Hindu. He was a real Hindu, who is born in India, but was living in Dubai for a while. She was sitting at home within the walls, went nowhere, went everywhere with him. And this lady friend of mine asks me, «Can you sit at home within the walls now and not go out?» And I answer her, «I live this way. I all the time sit at home within the walls». I said about my work that I work at home on the computer.

I also learned something from this conversation. In particular, I told to Shri Ram that I have a husband out there somewhere, and he is devotee of Shiva. He worships Shiva. I told that as if he is a Hindu, from India, he is from the spiritual world, but he lives here in the material world. This way I told Shri Ram that my husband is Nrisimhadev. He is from the spiritual world (because he is a Hindu, from India), but He lives in the material world (because he lives in Dubai). How does He live? He lives as a Deity, in the form of a Deity. My husband is Nrisimhadev himself. He is from the spiritual world, but lives in the material world in the form of Deity.

And through these words for that lady friend of mine I said that when I danced the dances of devotion to the Deities on the higher heavenly planets, I took Nrisimhadev into my heart and fell in love with Him. I loved the Deity of Lord Nrisimhadeva with my entire being from the moment I saw Him. I often danced for this Deity. After some time, I began to mentally fly to the Deity. I mentally was entering into this Deity and mentally was spreading out by molecules inside this Deity. I literally was dissolved into this Deity, for many lives in a row. And all this time I was with this Deity of Lord Nrisimhadeva. When everyone was coming to receive the darshan of this Deity, to worship Him, I was with Him. I was dissolved in Him. Everyone was bowing to Him and me, because I was dissolved in this Deity. Although I personally did not stand there with Him, but I was in Him. We were together.

This is what I said to my Shri Ram through words for that lady friend of mine. Nrisimhadev is Krishna himself, living here in the material world. And Krishna worships Shiva in the material world. Krishna is devotee of Shiva. That's why I said that my lady friends lived with the guru who was devotee of Shiva. This way I said to Shri Ram about who is my husband. This is a guru, a devotee of Shiva, who is from India, that is, from the spiritual world, but who lives in Dubai, that is, in the material world. This is Nrisimhadev Himself. And when I was inside the Deity of Lord Nrisimhadeva, in a dissolved state, merged with the Deity of Lord Nrisimhadeva, after some time, Nrisimhadev told me to come to those souls embodied in the material world who are young in their spiritual development and who are desiring.

He said that I am already many years old. It means that I am already at a fairly high level of spiritual development. He said that there are many young people. This means that these people are young not by the age of their body, but by their spiritual development. They are not aware of the true values of life and have low-lying carnal desires, mundane interests and low consuming attitude to the woman. He said that these young people want such a woman, like me, and that I have to go to them and help them to rise. And in the words that my lady friend was sitting in Dubai at home within the walls and nowhere did not go out without her man-hindu, did not communicate with no one almost, went everywhere only with him, I told Shri Ram that I was faithful, I had no one else. I told Shri Ram that I have only Nrisimhadev, and that where Nrisimhadev went, I went there with Him, being dissolved in the Deity of Nrisimhadev. Shri Ram asked me, can I be so faithful now, and I told him that I am still the same. I told him that I am sitting all day long at home within the walls and do not go anywhere.

Through these words I said to Shri Ram that I am faithful to him. I'm faithful to him since that time as soon as he came to me and plugged into me. That time I realized this due to my changed behavior, because I began to look at myself with different eyes, as if some man was looking at me from my eyes and I wanted to impress him. And since that time, my inner compass is tuned to him and does not deviate anywhere. I thought, how he was not ashamed to give to other men at the energy plane of existence a woman who stays at home, only with her husband and doesn't go anywhere, who is all the time with him and do not take her eyes off him? Shri Ram was calling me to him, he was persuading me to come to him.

In some past lives he thought about his Shakti and somehow was persuading her to come to him, but when this Shakti came to him, he began to give her to everyone. He desired, as those young, who wished. But when he got what he wanted, that is, me, he looked at me and said, «Well, if you want to be with me, then you'll be through me with other men. If you agree to everything to be with me, then you will be with all other men».

Also in that conversation with that lady friend of mine, I touched on the topic of my second husband, with whom I lived for many years. I said that the whole time we lived together, I used contraception, protection. This way I said that we used abstinence and I was doing everything so that we did not fall. I tried so that we could restrain sexual desire and not have sex. But if this was happening, I was using contraception, protection, because we were not planning to have children. And the rest of the time I tried to protect myself from these falls. To make it clear to my lady friend, I said that I was doing my best to protect myself.

In these words, I told Shri Ram that the most important thing for me as a wife is faithfulness (because I sat at home within the walls and went everywhere only with him) and protection. That is, when I went to those young people, I defended them, and it was my most important function — to protect.

And it turns out that through these words I told Shri Ram that the most important mission, the Dharma of wife is to be faithful and to protect her husband. I told him that was the main thing and that I did it. But he had a very different understanding of the purpose of women. He believed that a woman is an object for pleasure. He wanted a woman to bring him pleasure, but I came to him and began to ensure his safety, began to protect him. As soon as he plugged into me and told me that I could tune in to him, I immediately tuned in to him and began to protect him. I perform my function as a wife. But he abused it.

He was persuading me to come to him, was giving me promises, said that he would do anything for me, but when I came to him and began to be faithful to him and started to protect him, he said that I'm not good enough to his enjoyment, and he began to give me to asuras, abusing the fact that I was fulfilling duty of a wife, that I am focused on him and ensure his safety. I was fulfilling my Dharma, but he thought it was wrong. He decided that a woman should give enjoy for man, that she is good for nothing more, and if something in the enjoyment of the senses is not enough, need to get rid of her, empty her and give her to other.

That's what he thought. And he calmly went on this scenario, according to the which, so it turns out, he always went. Indeed, this is indicated by the fact that in the summer of 2016 a situation arose that that good woman came to him and he immediately switched to her and began to give me to everyone. It means he's always been like this, in all past lives. Every time as soon as there was better object for the enjoyment of the senses, he immediately destroyed the object that was before, although it was a woman and, maybe, she also followed her Dharma of a woman, wife, but he thought that for the enjoyment of feelings the new will be better, and he just was erasing the old.

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